When dating, I made a similar list, just like you! I don’t necessarily consider this Type A behavior; isn’t it natural to prioritize? The tweet you featured has a condescending tone, but it has some element of truth: I truly didn’t know the difference between selection criteria and filtering criteria before I started dating. Learning the difference was key to my eventual success on the apps — with minimal rostering :) And the list was what helped me with that.
When dating, I made a similar list, just like you! I don’t necessarily consider this Type A behavior; isn’t it natural to prioritize? The tweet you featured has a condescending tone, but it has some element of truth: I truly didn’t know the difference between selection criteria and filtering criteria before I started dating. Learning the difference was key to my eventual success on the apps — with minimal rostering :) And the list was what helped me with that.